Cultivating authenticity: Embracing your true self in a differently-abled environment

By Guido de Valk
24-10-2024

Dissenters can burn out quite easily because they adapt to situations that don't feel right to them. This can be done differently! Read more.

Some time ago, I spoke with a friend who is a social worker focused on homelessness. He left his position with a burnout. His burnout stemmed mainly from disagreement with the policies he was required to implement.

Although he had better methods to assist his clients, he felt constrained by protocols. His approach was to discuss his concerns with his supervisor, though this conversation revolved around a desire for retribution. I think you recognize this attitude; you want to be right and don't want the other person to feel good. Ultimately, this led to a significant burnout, prompting him to resign in consultation with his employer.

Dissenters are often right

I regret this decision since dissenters are essential. Society has many issues that cannot be resolved with the same mindset that created them. Therefore, it’s crucial to provide dissenters with a clear role in driving the necessary changes. Dissenters can do a great job as long they do not start to change the others. My friend focuses too much on being right.

Dissenters with tremendous passion

I suspect many people do recognize themselves in this situation. Perhaps you have experienced this yourself, or know people around you who have been in such a situation. The essence of this situation is that you have a different opinion from the one expected of you by the company. And that you can't hold back. You can't help but give that other opinion a place, it needs to be heard.

I am talking about dissenters combined with tremendous passion. As a result, they also act differently. In many cases, that different acting is actually better than the prescribed way.

Dissenters adapt

These passionate dissenters find the strength to adapt while holding onto their true beliefs. Although they may engage in actions they don't fully endorse, their desire for authenticity remains alive within them. This journey, though challenging, can ignite a spark of change as they seek to break free from constraints. It’s a testament to their resilience, as the struggle against burnout only fuels their desire for a more fulfilling path. Many of these courageous individuals ultimately embrace entrepreneurship, channeling their innate creativity and vision into meaningful work that resonates with their values.

Authentic-self

Each of us harbors an authentic self—our true essence waiting to shine. Yet, for many, this inner self often remains overshadowed. You might find yourself acting out of alignment with who you truly are, caught in a struggle that can lead to burnout and confusion. But imagine a different path! By learning to embrace and express your authentic self, you unlock powerful ways to navigate your world with integrity and confidence. You have the ability to share your ideas and vision without conflict, creating a harmonious environment that uplifts both you and those around you. The journey to authenticity is not only possible, but it’s also transformative. Embrace it!

Your conscience

Your conscience is a powerful compass guiding you towards what truly matters. When you sense that things are amiss, it’s because your inner truth is urging you to rise and make a difference. Embrace that feeling! You possess the strength to create the change you seek. Although the path may not yet align perfectly with your vision, remember that every step brings you closer to your authentic self. When you connect with this genuine part of you, you'll discover the ability to inspire and uplift others. Your authentic self radiates warmth and respect, and your unique voice will be welcomed with open arms. Embrace your journey, and let your light shine!

Magic?

It may seem like magic, but in truth, it’s a fascinating science that reveals the wonders of our mind. The essence of our authentic selves lies in the beautiful harmony between our right and left brains, with the right hemisphere taking the lead. This part of us embodies our heart and rich life experiences. When we shift from purely rational thinking to embracing our emotions, we open our hearts, forging deep heart connections with ourselves and others. A disarming relationship is automatically the next step. Embrace this journey of heart-led discovery, and watch as your world transforms!

To conclude

Many people feel trapped in their work, because they have ended up in a structure and working methods that do not fit them (anymore). My message is to see this situation primarily as a signal that they are needed here! And not as something disastrous. Please do not leave, please do not fight, but focus on becoming peaceful and day by day more of yourselves. Because your authentic self knows perfectly well how you can realize what is important to you in this situation!