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From Fear to Courage: My Journey to Becoming a Conscious Creator
I am Guido de Valk
A teacher authenticity and conscious creation
For much of my life, I lived as many do: striving, adapting, and achieving while often keeping a part of myself hidden. My career began conventionally—I trained as a general practitioner, driven by a deep desire to help others. I believed that hard work and resilience were the keys to success, but something was missing.
It wasn’t until I began meditating that I discovered the profound power of consciousness.
Meditation opened my eyes to the possibility of conscious creation—a way of living where my decisions, emotions, and actions aligned with my truest self. This realization was life-changing. It helped me see how much of my life had been shaped by fear and external expectations, and it set me on a journey to reclaim my authenticity.
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A Life of Adaptation and Hidden Opinions
From a young age, I adapted easily. My optimism and resilience carried me through many challenges, but they also came with a cost. I often avoided expressing my true opinions, fearing the possible negative consequences. Instead, I offered opinions that felt “appropriate” to the situation. While this approach kept things harmonious on the surface, it left me feeling disconnected from my own needs and desires.
Before I discovered conscious creation, I didn’t recognize how deeply fear influenced my life. I was preoccupied with avoiding negative outcomes and often silenced my inner voice. Even as I began to suspect that there was more to life than reacting to circumstances, I wasn’t yet ready to explore what that might mean.
Low Points That Became Turning Points
Life has a way of pushing us to grow, often through challenges. My divorce, for example, was a painful and tumultuous time, but it forced me to confront truths I had long avoided. I realized that I hadn’t been happy for much of the marriage but lacked the courage to address it.
Similarly, working in a group setting taught me the cost of neglecting my own needs. While I loved the collaboration, I became so focused on others that I lost touch with myself. This imbalance led to tension, quarrels, and a business that struggled to thrive.
These experiences, though difficult, were wake-up calls. Around this time, my journey into meditation and self-reflection began. I started to understand the power of consciousness—not just as a tool for calmness but as a way to consciously create the life I wanted.
The Turning Point: Embracing Conscious Creation
When I embraced conscious creation, everything changed. I stopped hiding my beliefs and began living them. Conscious creation taught me to see emotions, even fear, as allies guiding me toward growth and authenticity.
I learned to follow excitement, even when it defied conventional wisdom. For example, moving to Asia in my 60s wasn’t what most people expected, but it felt undeniably right. For the first time, I allowed my True Self to lead the way, trusting my conscious decisions and acting on them with courage.
Highlights of My Journey
This shift has brought incredible rewards. I’ve written five books, one of which was even nominated for an award. I’ve witnessed profound transformations in countless clients. I’ve built a relationship that fits me perfectly, even though it doesn’t align with traditional expectations.
Most importantly, I’ve discovered the freedom and joy of being fully myself. Where fear once ruled, courage now guides me. I no longer live according to “first work, then enjoy”; instead, I follow the spark of excitement and trust that it will lead me where I need to go.
A Message for Those Seeking Change
If there’s one thing my journey has taught me, it’s this: true transformation begins with authenticity. By aligning with who you truly are and acting consciously, you can create a life that exceeds even your greatest aspirations.
Today, I live as a conscious creator, and I help others do the same. It’s not about eliminating fear or avoiding challenges—it’s about embracing them as part of the process. It’s about choosing authenticity over conformity and courage over comfort.
And it’s about realizing that the life you dream of is not only possible—it’s within your power to create.